I actually have the same problem. Currently I have two MX records for our office, the first is a direct to our email server, the second is to a catchall account at an ISP in the event of our internet being down. The second account gets an unreasonable amount of email for whatever reason. When this account is checked I use fetchmail to retrieve the emails then forward them to Scalix. The unfortunate side effect of this is that if the account does not exist sendmail sends a response back. This is generating heaps of outgoing mail.
Anyway I think this is what is happening

I would like to disable the bouncing of emails altogether if I can.
TIA