Bumping this update...yum install works so much better.
Okay just writing to say that after 12 hours...it's working.
Now I'm going to kick back and have a beverage.
What did I do?
1) From the command line your going to type:
yum install sendmail-devel
yum install spamass-milter
2) I then followed the knowledge base PDF from scalix on editing the configuration files.
Only difference is I used /var/run/spamass-milter/spamass-milter.sock for the last modification.
Hopefully the scalix support can figure out why this worked or if it's just a poof it worked fix. It is working though...I looked at an email header and saw the neccessary spamasssassin header code. Now the plugins...and auto learning....YEAH.
Hope this helps out someone else